Stop 'git push' over HTTP early

Before this change we always let users push Git data over HTTP before
deciding whether to accept to push. This was different from pushing
over SSH where we terminate a 'git push' early if we already know the
user is not allowed to push.

This change let Git over HTTP follow the same behavior as Git over
SSH. We also distinguish between HTTP 404 and 403 responses when
denying Git requests, depending on whether the user is allowed to know
the project exists.


See merge request !5639