Added documentation on adding database indexes

## What does this MR do?

This MR adds a guide on when to add database indexes, how to approach this problem, etc

## Are there points in the code the reviewer needs to double check?

Spelling, grammar, etc

## Why was this MR needed?

Blindly adding indexes can be harmful to the database, and I recently had to remove 48-something unused indexes.

## What are the relevant issue numbers?

#20767

## Does this MR meet the acceptance criteria?

- [x] [Documentation created/updated](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/blob/master/doc/development/doc_styleguide.md)
- Tests
  - [x] All builds are passing
- [ ] Conform by the [style guides](https://gitlab.com/gitlab-org/gitlab-ce/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING.md#style-guides)
- [x] Branch has no merge conflicts with `master` (if you do - rebase it please)
- [x] [Squashed related commits together](https://git-scm.com/book/en/Git-Tools-Rewriting-History#Squashing-Commits)

See merge request !5771